Why are these women looking for men outside their county and culture?
Many Latin women believe foreign men of other countries and cultures are more sincere, faithful, and caring than men of their countries. They also believe that foreign men treat their women very well. A secondary reason is that there is a high ratio of single women to men in some countries such as Colombia.
Is the age factor very important?
Not as important as it is in some countries such as America. In Latin culture older more mature men are looked up to. Many ladies' applications to us specifically state that they are looking for someone substantially older than themselves. It is not uncommon to see a 20 year age difference.
What if I am just an average looking man?
In Latin culture looks are not important as being a caring, loving, faithful and sincere person. What is inside is more important that the outside.
What about economic status?
While these ladies hope to meet someone that is financially stable, it is not necessary to be a wealthy or to have a lot of possessions. Most of these ladies have indicated they would like to work and contribute to the family in whatever country they end up in.
Where can I find more information regarding visits, travel, visas, mail, phone service and more?
to Giovanna@lacasadeamor.com. and I will be happy to answer your questions.
Write the ladies!
Before any success can be achieved you must take the initiative, and write! Be positive about yourself - stress your good points. Discuss your interests, job, characteristics, personal likes/dislikes, and your city of residence. Do not mention material possessions. Material possessions should not be important to your future wife. Do not be negative about American women. It isn’t necessary. "American women’s reputations speak for themselves." Latinas know why you desire them, even if they ask you why later. Use common (easily translated) English words. Ask her to tell you more about her, ask for her phone number, if desired. Avoid slang. Write legibly. Most importantly, always send a good, recent photo of yourself. Smiles work better than tough guy or sourpuss photos. Some clients send a postcard of where they live along with a personal note.
Should I send money to the women I correspond with? How to avoid gold-diggers in my search?
This is a really hot question but there are several simple rules that may help you: We recommend you do not send money, at least in the beginning. If the woman with whom you are corresponding is really interested in you then she will certainly respond without any financial incentive. Avoid women who fell in love with you from the first letter - this is suspicious, try to be realistic about this relationships, it really needs time to develop. Age difference is another important factor. If one corresponds with a girl 30 years younger than him, he must understand the possible reasons pushing a young woman towards the decision. Pay much attention to her letters - does she answer your direct questions or all the time you receive just general information. (On the other hand it may be her bad English that leads to misunderstanding). We hope that our advises and your life experience together will help you to escape hunters for your purse and you'll find an honest girl that will make you happy. Please, let us know of any suspicious cases and we will remove that ladies from our site.
